Unconditional, True Love
People change, but true love persists, as a grokking of identity (both identities) and the relationship. Love is renewed, as a committment between two different and changing beings, who would rather be together than alone, and feel they are and will be happier in communion. Honestly, it takes work, and can be a bit of a gamble. Cupid's arrow can be random, but some of us take what we can get.
Unconditional- no matter what. If you love one, you love all (all in all is all we are), SO a relationship between two expands into your overall relationship with society. Love is wanting the other person to be happy, not suffer, almost as an extension of self, with compassion and joy.
True, not acted or pretended, natural and organic. Deep affection, and loving yourself around your loved one. God is often defined as Love, the source of love, and can be a helpful belief for a committed relationship, grounded in an unchanging ideal of goodness and support and kindness.
Loving Reality, life, yourself, everyone. Love is happy, helpful, hopeful (Heaven itself).
Sex is just a part of it, called "making love" for a reason, but not strictly necessary, especially if the love isn't mutual, or is unrequited. Intimacy is a kind of maintenance, a language of touch between a couple who enjoy each other, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
Love should grow and be reinforced, and be pleasurable, in every way. Life can be hard, so having someone to deal with it all is important, even necessary, because solitude, alienation, isolation, and loneliness don't hold a candle to Love.
The sex act does not equate to love. But knowing each other's turn-ons and turn-offs is part of it. Really, really good sex, good chemistry, is foundational for many relationships. But not all. Lovers should be best friends, too, if you ask me.
UTL also stands for Unable To Locate (in police lingo)
Love is inclusive, if universal. Even for haters. People who wish ill on others. Like burn in hell for all eternity. Or crucify him. Even dumb dicks, stupid shits, idiot retarded wicked reprobate sinner criminals, monsters, demons and vicious villains. Infested rotten whore things. Arrogant bent corrupt depraved evil fucks. Cruel and twisted. Yada yada. Every single one of us, the devil inside. They say God loves everyone, including sinners. God says I don't even know you. But to know know know him is to love him. I don't know you, but I love you. You're a person. I get it. Get the picture?
I suppose I should add that God has his favorites. Those he loves most (and least). Right?
Hats off, yessir, to yetzer ha-tov! Have a Buddha-ful day! Or an even butter day with cheeses rice :-)
I Noah guy. Why didn't Noah go fishing? He only had 2 worms!
G-D: God Dick, Gigantic (Orgasmic) Dick
Mom and Dad are MAD about Meat And Dairy, Mutually Assured Destruction, and Making A Difference
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Wherever I go, Hugo; Augie the logical yogi; Pierre and the peerage system (UK), the excitement and variety of feudalism, few-dull ism!; peasants and serfs and pheasants and Smurfs; the perfect society for the stressed and anxious: calm-you-nism :-). Phosphorus is fun for us. Houthi youth seek Yemeni hegemony. I can go to Iran, like Ivan. Jedis in Jeddah. I miss the missus' missiles. I left the key to my EV in Kiev. my darling uses Starlink. You think this incense smells nice? I dissent, and dislike the scent. Barbaric Barbara is not as bad as Ruthless Ruth. Flavor-flav knows Flávio? Rounding up numbers and supporters, and pointing down. Kids in the halal. Yahoos crossing the Yalu. Kevin in Kevlar. Pogrom program is pro-Graham. Blind and in a bind. Sighted and cited. Doctor Pepper and Nurse Salt (Lot's wife?). Leiningen and the ants, as read by the defend-ant :-)
