Love

Unconditional, True Love

People change, but true love persists, as a grokking of identity (both identities) and the relationship.   Love is renewed, as a committment between two different and changing beings, who would rather be together than alone, and feel they are and will be happier in communion.   Honestly, it takes work, and can be a bit of a gamble.  Cupid's arrow can be random, but some of us take what we can get.

Unconditional- no matter what.   If you love one, you love all (all in all is all we are), SO a relationship between two expands into your overall relationship with society.   Love is wanting the other person to be happy, not suffer, almost as an extension of self, with compassion and joy.

True, not acted or pretended, natural and organic.   Deep affection, and loving yourself around your loved one.   God is often defined as Love, the source of love, and can be a helpful belief for a committed relationship, grounded in an unchanging ideal of goodness and support and kindness.

Loving Reality, life, yourself, everyone.   Love is happy, helpful, hopeful (Heaven itself).

Sex is just a part of it, called "making love" for a reason, but not strictly necessary, especially if the love isn't mutual, or is unrequited.   Intimacy is a kind of maintenance, a language of touch between a couple who enjoy each other, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

Love should grow and be reinforced, and be pleasurable, in every way.   Life can be hard, so having someone to deal with it all is important, even necessary, because solitude, alienation, isolation, and loneliness don't hold a candle to Love. 

The sex act does not equate to love.  But knowing each other's turn-ons and turn-offs is part of it.   Really, really good sex, good chemistry, is foundational for many relationships.   But not all.   Lovers should be best friends, too, if you ask me.

UTL also stands for Unable To Locate (in police lingo)

Love is inclusive, if universal.   Even for haters.   People who wish ill on others.  Like burn in hell for all eternity.   Or crucify him.  Even dumb dicks, stupid shits, idiot retarded wicked reprobate sinner criminals, monsters, demons and vicious villains.  Infested rotten whore things.  Arrogant bent corrupt depraved evil fucks.  Cruel and twisted.   Yada yada.   Every single one of us, the devil inside.  Get the picture?